Modest is Hottest

Attention Girls: Your upper thighs are unappreciated, your cleavage can find a cave and hide in it, and we already know that your midriff exists, you don't have to show us.

Let's be honest, clothes prices are getting higher along with where your shorts sit on your legs. And as they cost more, there is way less material. This is a problem.  A BIG one.

Now, I know that you look super cute in that shirt, and the shorts just go along with the "summer look". I also know that when you wear it, you get attention. Guys naturally are giving you second glances, girls are telling you how great you look, and our society gives you a standing ovation for showing more skin than the girl next to you.

But before you get that second glance from that guy, think about what he is actually saying: "Hey, I really like you....r legs. Not you, just your hott body." Now, for some, that feels great, it's a compliment after all. But let's take it from a bigger perspective for a second.

Let's talk about your future husband. Let's say you got to peek into his world and watch a video of what he is doing for one day. Let's say he is walking down the street, turns, checks some chick out, and then you can hear his thoughts as he says "Dang, I'd wanna hit that!" Hopefully you would be disgusted because he isn't even saving his thoughts for you. He is just taking in all he can get.

Now let's flip this around. Girls have often said, "Oh, guys are such pigs, all they think about is sex." Why do you think that is? Is it because everything you wear is screaming, "Respect me as a human" or is it saying, "Don't look me in the eyes...look everywhere else!"Let's face it, guys can be really gross, but more than not, girls have some say in how much a guy is getting tempted.

Again, I want to emphasize that it is not completely the girl's fault; we know that guys have a long way to go to be pure, yet it is important to recognize that cuteness is not the only factor that should determine what you wear.

This being said, here is the truth. At least for my friends and I, sweatpants are attractive. Long basketball shorts are attractive. And we are not just saying that. There is something about a girl respecting herself and the guys around her that make her that much more attractive. There is an attention grabber to a girl that doesn't play the "What Percentage of My Body Can You See" game.

(Plus, in all honesty, long shorts and sweats really are hott!)

So please, this is a guy honestly asking, will you please just put some more clothes on. I promise you will still find a guy, and odds are, he is going to be better than the one that is currently staring you down.

You gotta start by lovin her personality before you get to lovin her body,
Tommy